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Can I Dress Sexy at Work?


Will a Push-up Bra or Miniskirt Help or Hurt Your Career?

Are you a sassy and seductive femme fatale looking for a promotion?

Or, are you a conservatively clad careerist looking for feminine clothes with a little sexual flavor?

Depending on the career, dressing sexy at work can give you a competitive edge or ruin your chance to rise to the top.

Here is my seasoned perspective on the dressing sexy at work debate. Buckle your seatbelt as you peruse my observations how you can dress sexy at work and its effect on your career climb.

A sexy woman in the office is as a symbol of power or an agent of seduction

If you work at Hooters, are an exotic dancer or even perform certain unmentionable sexual acts behind closed doors, dressing super sexy is a fundamental requirement of your work.

Imagine a dominatrix or a well-endowed wing-server in a Brooks Brothers blouse, conservative leather round-toe pumps and a Herringbone skirted suit. Could these women perform their jobs well?

Absolutely. However, it would be a little more difficult to gain those enormous tips and serve their clients without the proper tantalizing attire. For women who do not work in a sexually charged environment, there are definite dress expectations and a mandatory strict adherence to office clothing customs.

If you are a uniformed professional: a medical employee, work in law enforcement or armed services, your standard issued uniform represents credibility, safety and protection.

Modifying your uniform with racy black fishnets or (unbuttoning your blouse to reveal lacy intimate apparel) will not only compromise your credibility, but also send a message that you are incapable, incompetent and not a viable candidate for promotion.

Would you expect a female entertainment executive to wear a poncho to a black tie event?

Women who work in the creative fields: advertising, fitness, music, movies, beauty and fashion…the sexy clothing lines at work are often blurred. Figure hugging suits, body-enhancing workout wear and lingerie inspired dresses and blouses are the norm in these industries.

Would you patronize a fitness trainer who wore baggy clothes?

When in doubt the sexy clothes question always lies in appropriateness and behavior. Just because you are wearing low cut dresses or a sexy outfit, does not mean you have something to sell. In this corporate rat race dignity, competence and results will trump sexy clothing choices every time.

How sexy should you dress? Look no further than the highest-ranking female at work.

Many long days at the office and mandatory after-hour work events make the transition from professional corporate citizen to party-hopping social diva unavoidable. Can you wear the latest body hugging fashion at work? It depends on your job, career aspirations and the occasion.

Copy the fashion choices of the top performer in your field

If you are clueless on how sexy to dress at the office, mimic the savvy style of your favorite female fashionista in the executive suite. If she dresses sexy at work and still continues to have the respect of her peers and superiors, follow her lead. If this superstar woman throws a little sex appeal into the fashion mix and is successful, you might be on the right track to career success.

With casual clothes, becoming the norm in most 9 to 5 work environments dressing sexy at work in the 21st century can be difficult to define. Too often, what women wear to work now mirrors the sexy form-fitting fashions of today. A woman can be one bare midriff, too tight shirt and mini-skirt away from career clothing suicide.

If conservative office attire is the way to the top at work, keep that push up bra, lacy thong and midriff top well hidden under your suit…where it belongs.

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  3. Does anyone think its okay for women to show as much cleavage as possible in the office, wear push up bras, miniskirts, tight shirts, high heels and low neck lines- if men are distracted thats mens problem not the womans- women have the right -noone has the right to tell them what to wear. If men kept their eyes focused on their work and stop staring at womens boobs then there wouldnt be a problem. I think men are getting used to the idea of having female colleagues in revealing clothes around them and its not such a big deal. I think they should be educated to respect women to eliminate sexual harrassment in the workplace

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  6. women are wearing more and more cleavage to work – instead of going braless they are wearing push up bras to work to emphasise what they are proud of -their feminine sexuality and beauty- that a step forward for womens lib -an advance for feminism- they have freedom to wear what they want to the office

  7. i say u can dress in whatever way u want to – as long u don’t push it too far ;-)

  8. men have sexual urges at work because of female coworkers dressed provocatively -thats a fact . men cant help it -its involuntary -theyre just turned on by cleavage, tight blouses, etc- its not fair for women to tease their male colleaugues at work by dressing sexy or by deliberately attracting male attention for their amusement -thats wrong

  9. I agree with VAL, just don’t push it too far.
    However if you learn to seperate personal feelings from being professional you’ll realise that there won’t be much that bothers you. In other words you’ll be ok with practically anything. Just try it.

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